Thursday, August 4, 2011

What kind of dad will he be based on his participation during my pregnancy now?

I am prepared to hear all of your comments (weather harsh etc). I read before that men usually come around when the baby is born, but i'm ready to move on with my life he he doesn't. During my pregnancy he's been minimally involved. When he found out (test strip)he turned pale the first time and assumed it was a bad test. We took another one and he turned pale again and didn't say a word for at least fifteen minutes and then didn't display much excitement later either. He explained it was because he didn't have a good job and was very concerned financially. However, he never told me to get rid of it. I also gave him the option of coming to ultrasounds and doctors appts, but for him they were not big deals. Even the first time he heard the baby's heart beat his reaction was.. " it's just a heart beat...". He isn't the worst guy in the world, but I personally feel he will drag me down emotionally as he stresses me out often from fighting etc. I am ready to move on. Do you agree it is time to consider him a nuisance in my life?

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