Why do omoh people seem to have more fun? Is coming out really that exciting?

Some people revel in being different-others hide in a closet. When some people come out--I've seen them totally change their lives, like a rebirth. Hiding who you are and who you love is soul destroying-it can be liberating and exhilarating to finally be able to be open about what you feel. Not to bust your bubble, but if you're seeing people totally out, they're usually very confident and much more likely to be able to handle "being different" than those who quietly live out their lives or hide everything about themselves. So you're probably seeing the fun extroverts..